C'Nut, that's some great insight there from TL2. Thanks for sharing.
With Witty, it's not your job to let her down easy without any bruises. I'm not saying be a jerk. Just tell her it's best to not continue. Trust your gut. This was a one-time meet up; you're not breaking her heart. If you want a buddy in town, try to make a new guy friend.
Me-47,XW-43 S13,S16 M:18 BD:4-23-17 W filed:7-17-17 (5 months of in-house separation hell) W moved out:1-6-18 D granted:2-15-18 Decree signed:3-29-18