The more I think about things the more I think we need to separate. This last event with buying the arcade game and hiding what he did and lying to me is really over the top (in my thinking - am I wrong?). He completely made up a story about wanting to help me get the fridge from my mom's house when I don't think he ever even intended to do that.
I keep thinking about me leaving because that is my bent, but my h has another house from his single days. I just don't think anything is ever going to change with us living together. How do I make it clear what needs to happen and insist on separation? What if he won't go?
