I know I mostly followed that script. But then comes Act II.
1. After uncurling from the fetal position, the realization you are going to live through this. 2. Doing the things YOU want to do, because you missed doing them. 3. Beginning to detach. 4. Growing enough to realize that yes, you were not the perfect spouse, but neither were they. 5. Realization that your spouse was a fool to leave you, and you are going to kick life's a$$ from here on out.
