Fighting my way out of the dark - Part 8

[Holding]

Acc, I used the familywizard website to send an "official" notice to XW, and said pretty much exactly what you recommended. She responded by saying my reminder was "fine", and then she changed the topic to me refinancing the house. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

After it was over, I told the kids that this is my house now and their mom needs my permission to enter the house. It felt awful having to do that, but they seemed to understand. God, I hate all this.

WX then starts up again with saying I went behind her back in contacting the school, as well as withholding from her the info that S15 stayed home from school sick (he gets "sick" all the time). I offered to put together a list of detailed coparenting scenarios that we could agree on, and she rejected the suggestion, saying she doesn't want a "list of do's and don'ts on how to be a parent". Instead, she wants me to be more "forthcoming".

I'm not a violent person, but this all makes me want to punch a wall or something. She has taken my family and killed it. She put me through h3ll more than any other single human being has. And now she continues to try to control me after she gets what she wants. ENOUGH!

I hope we can get to a place where we can get along. I just want to coexist.