She said "if you love me like you say, how could you ever treat me like that for so long."
May I ask - I have this same question of my H. Why do people (men it seems like more often) do this? Why do people know their spouse is suffering but they just let it go on when they could do something differently? I am genuinely interested in understanding this mindset as it seems to be so prevalent and destructive to others.
Because right now he is only thinking about himself. His mind is not thinking of you at all.
