Tomorrow we have an appointment with child welfare officer. W started asking me about alimony. What are my thoughts on it, am I going to ask for it etc. I've told her answers to these before. And I told her again. We are not going to talk about alimony at this point. Only custody issues.

Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.