Jelly, wow, that's given me a lot to think about. Thanks!
It's scary to realize I chose XW because she reflected my own issues. I mean, I know I chose her and no one forced me to M her, but it's hard to think that I saw (subconsciously?) her emotional issues way back when and was cool with them. Hmmm...
TBH, the further along I go, the more hesitant I become to getting in a R with anyone. I guess I need to re-learn to trust myself.
Me-47,XW-43 S13,S16 M:18 BD:4-23-17 W filed:7-17-17 (5 months of in-house separation hell) W moved out:1-6-18 D granted:2-15-18 Decree signed:3-29-18