Wife wont admit to affair, its driving me nuts! 2

[Morbo]

And...of course you both are totally right.

Focus on you and the kids. That's it.

Keep going. Forget what she's up to. Don't rubberneck at her car crash, keep your eyes on the road in front.

Acceptance is coming slowly, detaching is helping along with NC.
I had one slip up on sunday though when my W texted saying that she was coming over with the girls early after breakfast. She was supposed to be dropping them over later at 4(we were going to a superbowl party). I knew the reason, she was seeing OM. I gave her a hard time, a couple of hard hitting texts from me and she needed to know it was not cool to do that.
No regrets, myself, my parents and girls had a great day.

W is totally missing out. HER loss