Just wishing you strength for you and your sons' sake.
Like job and exquisite mention, he is not going to play by anyone's rules other than his own. Its their continued efforts to control everything.
I've been going through the divorce process for many months now and I still can't wrap my head around how ex thinks he can trump the legal system. It blows my mind.... But as a mischievous finance guy, I did know he always thought he was above the law. It's foreign to me.