I will also add the H has announced that he is moving out next month. Finances don't allow for him to rent an apartment (he makes more money that I do, and will still be paying for the bills that my salary won't cover).
The only thing that doesn't freak me out about him physically moving out is the fact he will be renting a room from a couple that we both know, that I like. They will hopefully be a good influence, help him figure things out, unless, of course, he doesn't tell them the whole picture, and just paints me as a crazy person.
