.....and ever and ever and ever

[DonH]

I want to give you an "outstanding" for the message you sent FF - well most of it. You straight up called him out. You appeared strong, matter of fact, and bold. I would have left out the if you need a friend unblock me, comment. Perhaps if you need someone to talk to I can recommend some outstanding therapists you might want to speak with. OkAy, perhaps not that snarky but you get the point. You owe him nothing and most certainly should not be a soft place friend for him to fall to.

I have to wonder if some part of you is hoping that whatever crazy stretch of life he was going through is over and he might come back to normal - and to you? It's a normal reaction for many and I understand it but you need more and better.

G, he is showing you who he really is. I know we want to remember the good times and any piece of you still clinging to him, small as it may be, is remembering that along with who you hoped he would be. That's not who he is. Who he is, is the guy who breaks up over text and then blocks you. Who he is, is the guy who for whatever reason reaches out in the middle if the night, then runs away again. He's a runner - clearly. I'll bet that's how he ends it with current GF. The pattern is there.

Keep standing tall and strong saying, dude, what's your deal? Ive moved on, you should too.

I still give you a B+ for that response. Perhaps it's now time to block HIM to get an A!