Great Job. Keep up the hard work. she's hurting, her fantasy is turning into a reality. She thought she had you on a hook and now you have wiggled off. You are not enabling her anymore and she hates it. You were such a convenience for her and now she has to do her own work.
She can't stand to see you with another woman, because she is selfish. Remember that a WW is very selfish and everything is about them.
Remember you were one of her options and now she's left with one.
She had 3 options.
1. Leave you and stay with her affair partner 2. Leave her affair partner and start working on the M. 3. Leave both of you.
You control 2 and 3. If you leave she is left dealing with option 1. Doing any of these options hurt too much so she's holds on to all her options as long as she can, so she doesn't have to deal with life. Stay out of her way and continue on your own journey, if she is ready she will let you know. Key words, "She will let you know". You won't have to ask, does she want to be back with you. She will tell you. Keep your boundaries up and keep moving forward.
Onward and upward
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
