Had a pleasant enough weekend together. The wife wasn't overly physically affectionate, but we did have some fun together. She is clearly trying to justify her feelings by painting me as the bad guy. We had some really pleasant interactions, and were able to get outside and down some things together (Which is a big win).
She seems to like me most of the time, and there are little positive signs (like her saying she was looking forward to cuddling and watching TV with me the other day). But she is also extremely quick to anger.
I don't engage when she gets that way, and just try to ignore it. I'll be happy to discuss any issues between us when she's ready, but I think I need to wait for her to initiate those conversations for now. I'm also seeing little ways that I'm still pursuing, and slowing working at eliminating them.
It is REALLY hard getting little glimpses of the woman I love, interspaced with the anger and frustration. Feels like a serious Jekyll and Hyde situation.
Me, H-39, W-33 T11, M3 No children Bomb 10/17 - "Not sure what she wants" Bomb 2 12/17 - forced convo it did not go well. W moved out 3/18 OM Confirmed 4/1 D Final 9/27/18
