WW having EA with OW Possible MLC

[Maika]

Hey DblDown,

Just caught up on your sitch. First things first:
WHY ARE YOU TALKING TO HER ABOUT OW????????

That is completely male beta behavior.

Are you okay living in an open marriage?
If yes, then continue.

But if no, then lay down some boundaries, which definitely includes that she does not get to talk to you about OW.

What is your GAL? What are you doing for yourself?

All I am seeing is serious disrespect towards you. Stop being a doormat. Stop being a NICE GUY. Look up Nice Guy Syndrome.

You can give up on the MR, that's fine, but don't give up on yourself. Get your ball$ back ASAP!

Until you do that, nothing is going to change.