Yes, I agree H. I would not have don't anything different. There have been times where I felt like sending her a letter or having that one last conversation for closure. Then I snap back to reality and say F-that.....she isn't getting that from me.
I do believe I created the scenario but she doesn't have the desire. All my changes have stuck since I did them for me so I am happy, confident and ready to 100% let her go. I let her go with love, strength, compassion and my head held high. I have no regrets and wish her all the happiness in the world.