New LBS - need advice

[apothem]

I asked that of him because I don't want her hanging out at our house. I think because she walked out she needs to understand this isn't business as usual. Things aren't going to be the same because of the decision she made. I'm setting boundaries.

This still feels a little backwards to me. You are framing all of your thoughts and actions around HER and not around you.

In other words, your phrasing should be "I think because she walked out, this isn't business as usual." It isnt about what she thinks or feels, its about what YOU think and feel. You arent setting boundaries to prove a point to HER, you are setting them to protect YOU.

Good point - I have a habit of doing that...doh

On another note, has anyone worked with Leni before? That's the counselor assigned to me.