My ex basically plays his game on the phone the whole time. They sat next to eachtoher on the couch, he plays his game, she flips through her phone and she tried to be affectionate with him. They have never done that in front of me before, but she kept trying to touch his leg, or put her arm around him, but he is oblivious and does not reciprocate. He used to be very into physical touch. A hand holder, a cuddler, a hugger and a kisser. I guess he grew out of that.
I'd rather be happily alone by myself than unhappily alone with someone else any day...
As for seeing oww cuddling with D10, I understand that uneasiness, but in the long run I think it's better for D10 than being ignored. First time I saw the new boyfriend, I wasn't sure it was but figured it was since they showed up at my sons wrestling meet together, he went up to talk to my son for a few minutes before they realized I was in the crowd. It made me very uneasy seeing that, I would of much preferred my son not meet any new R until we were at least D, but I realized that I'd prefer him be friendly than an azz..
And, I don't know if your ex was bragging that you were his ex, I'm gonna say he was (hmm, not sure how to say this nicely or pg) male genitalia blocking you... after a comment like that, he was probably pretty confident you wouldn't have an opportunity to hit it off with any of the single men at the party.
Hopefully you were able to have a good time overall at the party.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized
