Today he was here most of the day. He came over and hung to help with these new puppies I now have . I saw him lying on the bed and at one point he looked at me and I looked back with the yearning face.
I dont really understand - why are you spending so much time together right now? I say if he is over to see the kids, then you should go out and do something. Not hang around him like one of your puppies Or have him take the kids somewhere else.
Originally Posted By: winner
(guilty much??)
I am assuming the shame. Any thoughts?
This is you projecting what you would expect he is feeling onto him. Just worry about what youre doing and feeling.
Or have him take the kids somewhere else.
