I am from divorce family myself. In my parents case my mom had to protect the kids and herself. Still there has always been a hole inside me. Even if I know it was the best decision for my mom and us kids.

In our case there is no clear reason. We had family trips a couple of weeks prior to W telling she's going to leave and she was all happy with me and the kids. Then all of a sudden she stopped talking to me and then moved out. How this will impact the kids even if we would end up in recon? Not well I suppose.


Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.