And still struggling

[Jim1234]

Nicole, no, I doubt she's done much self reflection. It wouldn't really be consistent with her personality. Also, her friends have changed, and the people she's listening to now would not encourage that line of thought.

Yup, it's not fair, but that's life. I think most of us on this board think our situations aren't fair. I think your situation is horribly unfair. But that's life, and I'm trying to make the best of it.

And I don't know if it's petty, but yes, it feels good knowing her house is a dump.