Newbie In Need Of Guidance #2

[rminer]

the bottom line is he turned a blind eye to his Ws A and as far as I know a year later he is still suffering immensely.

I can imagine he is I wouldn't be able to make it that long. I hesitate because I've read on here that it has to be "right" time. The only time I can get her alone is in the car occasionally. I don't want to do it there because i want to read her body language. Getting her to talk to me about anything other than the kids or finances is close to impossible right now.

Her mood has lightened a bit in the last few days, so maybe soon I can.