So what you are saying is that I’m just snooping, I know the answer but I want to keep picking at the scab. But what I see is that she will continue to pretend until I have hard evidence. I don’t know if I think she will have a change of heart once she knows that I really know, I think that’s what I’m hoping for. But you are right we both know the truth already, making her admit it is more for me. Somehow I think it will change something. So what do I do? I stop trying to prove it? Or do I wait? Maybe I should wait because if she comes clean on her own the I’m more likely to accept her. But if I force her to confess then she will never respect me. Help me understand.