And still struggling

[Jim1234]

Nicole, the objective part of me doesn't really think she's having second thoughts. Also, this board has helped me realize that she hasn't changed a bit. There's been no apology for her part in the failure of the marriage, and there's no indication she's willing to do anything differently. Absent these, I wouldn't want her back anymore.

And I guess if I'm wrong, and she is having second thoughts, I really don't want to pursue, pressure, and frighten her off. I think I'm better off waiting.