Getting ready to move forward

[petri]

Winner & Henwen. That's what my W is saying. When I talked about family she said "don't you f-ing talk to me about family b/c this is about you and me, this has nothing to do with kids". And of course the basic kids will be just fine, this doesn't affect them etc...there is actually no negative in divorce in her mind. Everything will be just fine after the D. Everyone will be happy and money will pouring from every window and door.

Basically she is right that this is about me and her. But the fact is that she doesn't see how this does affect our kids and our parsnts and siblings b/c it does affect much larger than me and her.