I am still a little confused by your actions but it's always your choice.

I will tackle one obvious thing

Labelling

One word don't!

You are being cold, manipulative etc is mind reading and labeling.

Instead express yourself as you thoughts, I feel disconnected from you right now. I think i might be being manipulated.

Don't

Label even for 'nice' things

You are improved

You are much happier.....

Invalidates the other.

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW