Soon to be LBS - need advice

[Holding]

Swagger, I just got caught up on your sitch. Sorry you're going through this.

I agree with Gordie that an A is very likely given your W's behavior. Sorry, man.

She is lying, blocking you from Facebook, not coming home. Whoever she used to be, she's decided to stop being that person. I know how horrible it feels to be in your shoes.

I was going to ask her to just leave ASAP, stay with family until your house is ready because this is not healthy for me. Am i wrong in asking her that?

I think you should ABSOLUTELY do this. It may end up saving your M, it may not, but it's certainly the best thing for your mental health. Take it from me, you do not want her around a second longer than necessary. After BD but before my XW filed, she told me "if you asked me to decide now, I would leave". I can't tell you how bad I wish I'd gotten up and packed a bag for her right that minute.