I had a talk with S11. I was very straight forward with him. I told him that the lie he told made his mom seem like a bad person. He realised that too. I told him that W is not a bad person. He said that his sad mind got a hold of him, that's why he used W in the lie.

Me:39 W:36
S:12 D:9
T:14 M:11
Separation:sep. 1 2017
D filed oct. 2017
D finalized july 2018
OM confirmed feb 2018
D finalized July 2018

The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.