Personally I think the best thing you can do right now is focus on you and your kids. I think the kindest thing to do for your w is to leave her to her own devices . You do need an emotional break from all this. Xoxoxo

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver