I have to be short tonight, but wanted to check in and read through my thread as well as others. I am going to get to reply to A and you J9. Thank you for the time
Lol, A you literally quoted my mindset as I was reading it.
J9- I don't remember if I have commented on your thread, but you are one of the 3 that i've read in its entirety, and grew some strength from.
Had a crazy day with the kids, but I wanted to ask you both, how you would handle a message from your W, in my sitch.
We haven't spoke in maybe 2 days, going on 3 maybe. Other than a 20 second schedule change she told me about, involving the kids. I made sure to end that convo as soon as she was through with telling me the important stuff.
So yeah we haven't spoke, and this is the LONGEST we have ever had silence. I'm sure you know what I'm talking about, it's been hard. The first few days, not to just text something simple or what not.
She just messaged me a few minutes ago, and said "Hey I hope you had a good day"
My gut tells me, to not write anything at all. I feel like that is absolutely the 100% way to handle that. But like I was saying, I am just in un-chartered waters right now and it feels weird. Which makes me second guess everything even more so.
Was short tonight, almost just felt like I was journaling but it felt good to get stuff off my chest here. Thanks again. I truly appreciate the words of wisdom for everyone.
