Gordie, I think you are right! The more I thought about martial arts it really started to resonate with me. Its good exercise,
its on a schedule, and its something I've always wanted to do but never have. Think I'll sign up for something this week. Any suggestions on what kind? Judo, jujitsu, karate?

Mach, awesome! Thanks, I'll check out those bands. I really like small venues and love seeing new bands. I've seen Cake, Gomez, Alt J, and Willie Nelson at small venues (to name a few). Always better that way!

Chili cook off huh? I am so down for that. Rick1963, bring it! I like eating chili just as much as making it! Cadet can judge smile

Originally Posted By: Mach1
Suggestion....

Don't use something that you can take or leave at any time...

Sign up for something that keeps you involved.

You can listen to Rosetta Stone at anytime...

Signing up for a class allows you to commit to the program....

Agreed. Gordie was saying the same thing. Not sure about a language class, but signing up for martial arts would get me out of the house on a schedule.


Originally Posted By: Mach1
It's true, and eye opening when you can see it...

You chose to stand for your marriage...

Nobody else made that decision...

The trick is, to stand, yet NOT stand still...


Truth. Starting to see it. Just need to hold on to it. Thank you guys for helping me with that. I really needed it. Its easy to get stuck in your own rabbit hole.


Me: 45 yrs
W: 43 yrs
Together: 20 yrs
Married: 15 yrs
Son: 19 yrs
Daughter: 18 yrs
BD: Jan 2017