Hoping this can be saved, but having doubts

[reframe]

I've wondered about that, and it's one of the things I'm really conflicted about.

The DB coach suggested that I "treat her like a dear friend and house guest".
When we had our first big fight after the initial BD, I stayed at my mom's house for an evening. She asked me to come home the next night. I asked at the time if she thought we should spend some time apart, and she said "that just let's me know that you can ignore me".


On the other hand, I do feel like she is taking full advantage of the support and the like I provide (both companionship, chores, emotional and financial) and really has no idea how much I do - since it's become the new norm for her.

The house is solely in my name though, and she's not really in a position to support herself yet, although she's clearly trying to get there.