Yes, I know! this is what I am kind of asking.

I am not ready for a D; but it pretty obvious she is making not effort to meeting my needs of NC, sharing phone records, MC, and doing what ever it takes to show me she is 100% committed to recon.

If she asks, I might say something like..."I cannot have this same conversation again, I believe I made it clear a couple times in the past that this is not what I want; but I will not stand in your way. It would take extreme effort and 100% commitment on both of us to reconcile and move forward with a new relationship."...

That is just of the top of my head.


M:30 W:28
T:9 MR:2.5
NoKids
Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16
Move back in: 1/17
BD: 8/15
She moved out: 9/1