Hoping this can be saved, but having doubts

[reframe]

Thanks man. Just seeing how common this is really helps.
One of the recurring themes I see on here is everyone trying to convince themselves that their circumstances are "different" or "unique".

My wife's health issues may add an element of uniqueness (and a challenge, since we can't go on normal dates, and we can't currently do much of the adventures and outdoor activities that we used to bond over).

But there's still a lot in common with what I see other WAS and MLC spouses on here doing...