Thank you smile

Well, as soon as the D was finalised, XH cancelled the monthly mortgage payments into my account...lol!

I've been checking every month since he ran away in October 2015 and and they've gone in every month, without fail.

End of January this year, none. And I checked again today, none.

So he hadn't just forgotten about it as I sort of suspected he might have done. Maybe that was his way of assuaging his guilt over everything...paying my mortgage on my house until the D was finalised? Who knows?

And who cares really. I'm so far along this particular path that the point from where I started seems lost in the mist. And I'm not particularly interested in untangling what's there, and far behind me now. I might give an occasional glance backwards, but I have no intention whatsoever in stopping moving forwards.


Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017