Chris--i agree with the others... don't restate... she knows what she needs to do... she may not be there yet--meaning, she may not believe the new Chris is really the REAL Chris... show her by your actions that the new you is REAL... don't waver... i am pretty sure she will find the new REAL Chris more attractive than the push-over Chris... she may not be ready to admit that yet... it does not matter... now if she asks you if this is what you really want, what will you say? you need to have this resolved before you meet--just in case...
