New LBS - need advice

[apothem]

APO...separating accounts is part of the process. It does sting a little bit but not knowing where she is spending her money, what times of the day and at what locations will help you with the detachment process.

Just make sure you have an agreement on how the bills will get paid and who will be paying for what.

I also would not let her know it bothers you, strong, confident and happy.

I do agree, it will help with detachment. We agree that I'm responsible for all of my bills, she will contribute to the cell phone plan, auto insurance, and health insurance until she gets her own.

I definitely will not be letting her know.