I stay at my condo for 5 days already. First 3 days, she asked me to go have some beers after work but I refused. However, she video called me every night.

2 days ago, my W told her parent that we separated but she did't tell them about OM. They're so upset and they won't accept it. W called me that she can't sleep, got a bad headache. She didn't know what to do. I didn't give her any advice, just listen.

Then yesterday, she asked me what should she do. It seem like being separate from me is impossible for her and OM wouldn't accept it.

I said "This is not my concern at all. If OM couldn't accept your situation he should not get involve with marriage woman at the first place." I told her that if she is still in contact with OM she shouldn't call or ask me out. I don't want to get blame when she fights with OM anymore. She got mad. she said that the reason that she call me or ask me out because she worry about me not that she want to keep me and OM both. She will stop calling me from now on. Let see....

Am I doing OK this time? Any comments? Thank you in advance: )


H43/W43/OM52
M15 w/D14
Live & work together/ OM oversea.
EA: Feb,17
PA: Apr,17
(10days/Apr,3wks/Jul,twice a wk/Sep,3days/Feb18)
OM away, WW ended A/ wants reconcile, Me being pursued.