Don't forget to protect financially the future of your children, ask to have money put every year on a college fund. It should be part of the divorce settlement also: who will be paying for the braces if they are needed, the special expenses (sports, camps, kids cellphones...), health expenses... driving lessons... the first car... if the dog is sick who will be the vet fees. Take your time, make a list.
Look at it as a business deal, I got this advice from a friend who went though a very tough divorce , he tried to play nice until the divorce was done and then he stopped paying for a lot of items, but since they were not part of the divorce settlements she couldn't do nothing.
Last edited by job; 02/02/1801:58 AM. Reason: added spaces between paragraphs
Me 52+ WH 57+ Married 20 + Piecing since 2016 (ready to give up...)
