Gordie #17: deliberately not divorced

[Gordie]

Peace: I do wonder if what we do makes any difference at all to the outcome of our situations but fall on the side of we can affect it if not control it. No matter what, we can definitely affect the person each of us becomes.

Job: Thank you. I spend less time thinking about her and my situation than I used to by it’s still the #1 thing on my mind most days. You will know when you’ve had enough. My coach said that too!

Butterfly: you know I take your reservations seriously, very seriously. My temptation at this point is to pursue but am consciously not calling or texting or inviting her on dates or wooing her (all things I want to do). Thank you for the reminder this may just be a touch and go. And who knows? Maybe there will be OM3 too... On that, I have already decided. If there is OM3, then I am going to file. And I will not drag my feet.

Sotto: bends in the road? Absolutely. And that I have a choice to stay or go? Remind me of that when I am feeling trapped. I do forget that.