180/LRT part 2

[Holding]

Thanks for the update, Dusty! I think you're headed in a good direction.

H, still not final. Trying to figure out out some financial stuff. Was accused of dragging it out because "I don't want a divorce" is what my L was told. I assured her I wanted this over.

My XW wasn't too happy with the timeline of our D either. At one point she told me, "I don't know what the hold up is. Do you think I'm going to change my mind? Cause I'm not."

I have finally started to drop my anger toward what my W has done to my family and doubled down on myself and my kids, not having her in the house has really sped this process up.

YES!

They both constantly ask if I'm doing ok, I thank them for caring about me but tell them everything is fine.

That's really touching that they're concerned for you. Be thankful for your awesome kids!

... started another Divorce Care session ...

Are you taking it again because you missed some the first time, or do you need a refresher?

I have finally excepted my role into the demise of our M, there were issues I've swept under the rug over the years and I'm sure she did as well. I needed to make changes to me, just wish she would have given me the chance before she went down the path she did, that does not give her the right to be wayward but I do see my share of the fault. Live and learn I guess, It will all work out!!

Ah, now we're getting down to business! I've been doing this too. I keep playing back old memories, and it upsets me that I didn't see the signs. It would have been nice to fix things in the M, but we can still fix ourselves for whatever comes next.