It's just hard for me to know when the time is right
For any note you are going to write now, probably never. But, in general, I would say the time is right when you arent wondering. I find the best advice is that when in doubt, do nothing.
Originally Posted By: apothem
the rule of will this make my situation worse or better.
The rule of thumb should be Does this get me closer to my goal(s)? Thats a far better rule.
Originally Posted By: apothem
I also will likely be asking here as well for opinions. It can't hurt to get additional points of view.
Please do!
Originally Posted By: apothem
I've been sticking to my guns when it comes to giving her space, and yes, it's super difficult and goes against everything my reflexes are telling me. But, I know it's for the best for both her and me.
You are correct and good job. Its something you can and should be proud of.
