I think you're right Johanna. I bunked off work today to spend some quality time with her but she went shopping on her own and when she got home at about 10:30 she made it obvious I was in the way - wouldn't let me help unload the shopping etc. so I got out of the way and came to work where my copy of Passionate Marriage was waiting for me in the mail. I quickly read a few pages but workload got in the way and I think I might be a bit late home tonight. I have a feeling it is the wrong time of the month hence the frostiness (she gets bad PMT). I'll keep my distance until she feels better... SD