Any advice 5

[gw5263]

I have frustration and yes , possibly some anger. She expects me to lay down and let her make me a three month a year dad willingly. There is no fing way that is going to happen. I am more than willing to meet her half way with 50-50 custody and have told her as much. She says she cannot do that and anything less than her proposal is me punishing her for loving him. Quite the opposite, I will not Ben punished for her loving him. My goals- to end the madness, minimize the damage to my children, minimize his role in thier lives, and move past this to a brighter future. She has destroyed me, she has destroyed our family, she has destroyed our future. I will not and cannot as a parent who loves his children more than anything allow her to seal the deal by destroying my children. She will not get the custody she seeks in court so we will have to go to mediation. I am firm in 50-50 equal time, and in my state that is the norm unless there are extraordinary circumstances. Just because she wants to live with him does not constitute such. She says she has to go to him because she cannot support herself and the kids . This is her choice and I will not be harmed any further by her poor life choices