It's always up to you Gordie & I wish you luck my friend. The main thing IMHO is those darned expectations. Who knows, your W may truly have had an awakening and this may be the start of genuine rebuilding. However I believe in people's stories and from all that I read here, I suspect you will have more bends to come in the road yet. So expect that and you won't be disappointed.

The thing to remember is this is always a choice for you. You can choose to stay or you can choose to go and you can exercise that choice at any point.

Best of luck with things :-)

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus