New LBS - need advice

[apothem]

@Coconut - Thank you, that is what I was considering as well. I'll go back and re-read The Lighthouse and the validation posts.

@Amoafwl - Again, thank you for the insight. That's why I come here, because I lack the perception to notice things like that. You're basketball analogy is completely on point, I haven't considered it that way.

I am using my time right now to focus on me. I've been working on self-improvement, finding new hobbies, doing things around the house, spending time with friends, etc. All things I didn't really do when I was with my W, at least not often.