SuperDave diary, Monday midday. I have been trying for some time to work out what W's love language actually is and I believe I've finally found it. I have had a good weekend with lots of time spent with W and I have realised that she shows her love for me by talking to me. What I mean is if there is a conversation going on she looks me right in the eyes which I like but also if there is someone else present she mostly looks at me when she says things which I now take as a sign of love. She could easily give all her attention to the other person but she chooses to look at me even if I may not be in the conversation. I will start to do this too. If I'm talking to someone else I will keep looking at her during the conversation so she feels completely involved. I spent some time reading "His needs, Her needs" which recommends that you spend at least 15 hours per week talking to your W and that 15 hours must be undivided attention. If you don't spend at least this much time then she will lose her connection with you. Now I don't know about you but 2 hours a day of undivided attention is not going to be easy what with the TV, computer and children running around but I'm going to do the best I can. SD
