Originally Posted By: Joseph9
Thanks H U2....I saw what you wrote about your STBXW and man that is awful. I have no advice but it is hard to imagine that someone can be that angry. There are a few XW's on the board that are really off the rails and I don't understand. It's like what did you ever do to get her that mad?? U know??


I try not to think about my XW, but it's hard not to try to get to the bottom of her anger. I think it might be because the D took too long for her. Or she's not happy with what we agreed to in mediation (her L didn't prepare her). Or maybe OM is not looking so shiny right now. Or she is infuriated by the boundaries I'm setting.

Originally Posted By: Joseph9
Anyways, my just sent me an email that she got written up at work and side swiped another car and ripped the bumper off of ours. I feel bad for her, showed her some empathy and I told her to keep her chin up smile. Karma..........big daddy won't be around too much longer.


You handled that very well. Good job!


Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.