First off...

$10 for the thread title...

Secondly...


I told you a long time ago, that you aren't going to able to "love" her back to you...

With that, I mean that you aren't going to still look at her with the same eyes that you see your former wife with.

You aren't going to be able to apply the old rules of the dead marriage, to whatever is to happen in the future.

If you love something set it free.....right ???

You have changed, you have grown, you have evolved as a person, as a friend, as a father, and HOPEFULLY......as a husband.

Thing is, when the MLCer comes through the tunnel, the LBS is leap years ahead of the MLCer in terms of relationship skills...

So, with a little luck, you are there...

You are thinking reconciliation, while she is thinking...

Ah, who the h@ll knows what she is thinking...

I still stand behind doing what is best for Gordie, and as long as YOU understand what that is, then I back your choice...

However, my gut feeling is that you are doing what is best for everyone around you...



So I ask you this....

How is she ever going to miss something that she hasn't "lost" ??