Not much new to update. My W and I have had several conversations over the past few days on custody, finances, etc. and we agree on everything so hopefully this will be a smooth process. The financial piece of splitting 401 etc will sting a bit but the monthly amount that I will be paying her is far less than what I am doing know so I should come out way ahead financially each month.

On a personal level I am doing great. I am happy, feel good and am actually really looking forward to life after D. My girls are doing awesome, I have been to the gym every day this week and have volunteered to coach my oldest D's soccer team. I also make my coaching debut on Saturday, coaching my 6 yr old team.

Not much else to report but I will continue to update until the D is final. I have come along way in 7.5 months and it feels really good to be approaching the other side.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018