Originally Posted By: Amoafwl
My thoughts (and Im pretty bad at this...)

[i]"XW -
Im finding that the twice daily calls between D and either of us are adding a lot of extra stress on both D and me. Going forward, while she is with me, I will make it clear that she can call you whenever she would like. She is old enough to talk without me, so I will give her the phone and freedom to speak to you at will. Your discussions are your business, so I will not answer texts relating to the calls or how D behaves while talking to you. I hope that you offer the same opportunities to her while she is with you.

Thank you
- East"

As far as I understand, there is nothing written or agreed upon and this constant communication is a courtesy rather than a specific requirement. I still dont see why either of you needs to talk to a 6 year old twice a day - thats like a half hour each day getting ready to use the phone and calling to talk to the other parent. My 6 year old can hardly remember what she ate for lunch. This just feels like a power struggle between you and XW - not what is in the best interest for D.


^^^^^^ This! Awesome stuff!